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Greetings Wingmen and Women

RECAP

So we’ve had a lot of enquiries about the Cold Approach. As we covered this in the previous Blog we won’t go into too much detail but I will recap on the most important rule and how to build up the confidence to make many successful approaches.

First off for all you younger Wingmen and Women out there, I often hear about how you found it difficult or didn’t know what to say when approaching your target. The problem is, most are asking about nightclub scenarios.

When you’re in a Night Club it’s pretty much understood by everyone that you can hit on several people in one night without any worries of upsetting anyone (unless you have already had success in that venue earlier in the evening). Success of failure may not come down to your skills, it maybe any one of a number of factors.

Where can you use your new found skills?

EVERYWHERE.

The point is success also has a surprise factor. When someone out of the blue starts talking to you in a coffee shop, a bus stop or a superstore etc, people naturally respond in kind and are more open because they’re not expecting to be chatted up.

This leaves you all sorts of possibilities of great encounters that have a high success rate.

So…How can you build your confidence to make a cold approach?

When you’re out and about, the weekend is always a good time for this, but trust us, you can do this anywhere at any time and everywhere that isn’t a night-club is a good place to start.

Make Small Talk.

Try to speak to at least 3 random strangers of the opposite sex (or your sexual preference) in one day. You need to strike up a conversation and it can be about anything. These people do not have to be romantic interests; they are just facilitating us building your confidence.

Conversations can start by asking for directions, the weather or any current event, the point is to just strike up a conversation. What this will do is take away the stigma of not being able to approach someone.

If you’re able to do that, you can then progress from there to taking away a personal piece of information about them and remembering something distinctive about them.

If there are any specific questions them you know where to send reach us.

JUDGEMENT OVER TRUST.

An unusual title, but it is exactly what it means. Judgment over trust. On the Twitter site we have often talked about spicing up your sex life and really exploring your boundaries of what you have actually done sexually.

Trusting in your partner is of paramount importance. Without trust it’s hard to function in a relationship…period. So the more you trust someone, the more likely you are to open up to them.

When it comes to the more, let’s say, “Kinky” side of your sexual relationship, fantasies, role play, toys etc. Trust may not be quite enough.

Surely if you have trust you should be able to tell them anything right?

Not quite, you see, your sexual desires and fantasies maybe shrouded in embarrassment or shame and it’s locked away in a small part of your brain that not even your closest friend will ever hear about.

So who do you tell?

You’ll tell someone that will embrace the thoughts and not pass judgment on them. None of us want to feel like freaks and because we don’t share these thoughts we imagine no one else or at least very few people would be having them.

Lots of people have very weird and wonderful ideas of sexual practice and the only way to really embrace it is when you can share it with someone. It becomes a huge relief to know that you have shared all of yourself with your partner (preferably).

So those that don’t pass judgment and are truly open minded are a lot more likely to reach their sexual boundaries and fulfill their sexual fantasies, while others will always have the fantasy and never reach their potential.

Table for 3, Mr. Penis and his two friends The Balls.

It is with a heavy heart that I write this paragraph. It seems no matter how many times we tweet about this, we constantly get messages from guys saying that their partner is great they really know how to turn them on, but “what can I do to get her to play with my balls more?”

What can we say?

There are those out there that will naturally take your entire sexual organ to its limit and those that need direction.

Just as every woman is different and you need to take time to learn what she likes, as there maybe a combination of things that will bring her to orgasm. Every man also has his own combination. You cannot just assume a simple tug back and forth will suffice.

Men and Women have wonderful and complex sexual organs that can be stimulated in a number of different ways, the trick is to find out what your partner likes. Understand that as well as the penis, there ARE balls attached to that and stimulating them can go a long way in arousing your partner.

One of the tips we often give on Twitter is about masturbating with your partner. Make it sexy, watch each other…I mean really watch each other, see what they touch, how much pressure they apply and how fast or slow they work it.

When touching your partner, don’t be scared to ask or be shown direction, it all aids you in a better

PICS OF THE WEEK.

Well done to our Wingman Jamie Sparrow for this wonderfully outrageous photo.

We're of course assuming that she's awake and was aware of your actions.

And also to one of our Gorgeous WingChicks who provided us with some beautiful photos.

Keep sending your photo's and stories to yourrealwingman@gmail.com

Stay tuned for the next blog...COMING SOON.

Tales Of The Expected

Hello again Wingmen and women. 

Hope you’ve had a week full of fun and frolics. The focus of today’s blog entry is…well actually, there isn’t a focus as such, but I think you will like it.

If you have read my first entry, you will remember Mr A. (good at going down, quick learner, my friendly fuck-buddy?...that’s the one, I knew you’d get there in the end.) Well, I finished work early one day this week and decided to use the extra time on my hands to pay Mr A a little visit. Luckily for me, Mr A had the afternoon off work and an hour to kill, so off I went. Wing-tip: if you live/work close enough to, seize opportunities to spend even half an hour with your ‘friend’. A lot can happen in a short space of time...as you will see.

We had the cursory ‘how was your day?’ conversation, some cuddling etc. Interestingly for a fuck-buddy, Mr A is very into cuddling. I have no complaints. The majority of girls like cuddles. Cuddles make us feel wanted, which means we are more likely to want to fuck you. Never underestimate the power of a good cuddle. As we were talking, Mr A’s hand started to slide up my leg. It has been unexpectedly mild this week, I was wearing a smart work dress- bare legs. Girls- it may still be winter, but that Is not an excuse for fuzzy legs. Make sure they are smooth, just in case, as happened to me, someone wants to run their hands all over you. No one wants to scratch their fingers in the process. Luckily, I am prepared 99.9% of the time, and Mr A’s hand slid further up my skirt until it reached my panties.

Everyone has a sex-tell. Something they do that tells the other person they want to fuck you. Yes, even you have one. You may not know or realise it, but ask someone you have been sleeping with for a while, they will let you know. I am not even sure what mine is. Probably not a very subtle tell in my case, I tend to make it very clear what I want. Mr A’s tell is his right hand. It starts at the knee and very quickly reaches the pussy. He is a total pussy-fiend. I know the minute that hand reaches the pussy I am going to end up fucking him. It can’t be helped, he knows how to please a girl.

I will cut straight to the chase today. Mr A moved my panties to the side (this is another favourite move of his…I was always a panties off kind of girl until I met him, now, well… :D) To be completely honest with you, I was already a little turned on. Mr A’s kisses are ridiculously good. There are two types of kisses that turn me on; the passionate, ripping your clothes off while my lips are locked on yours kind and the soft, equally passionate kisses that make a girl go weak at the knees. I had just been treated to the latter. Men: get good at both of these. Just like sex, women want variety in their kisses. They want to be romanced one minute and ravished the next. Get this right before even thinking she’s going to let you near the pussy.

Mr A pulled my dress up to my hips and pushed my legs open. Men, don’t be shy to do this. Obviously you don’t want to hurt your girl, but opening her legs wide makes it clear to her that you’re about to go down on her and the anticipation will start the orgasm hormones working.

Let’s talk pussy. Mr A knows how to lick it. I can’t tell you the details because in all honesty I was too caught up, but the most important thing to remember is to enjoy it. And show you are enjoying it. There is nothing less sexy than a man who approaches your pussy with trepidation. Nothing bad is going to happen to you, in fact the opposite. Get down there and eat it like it’s the first meal you’ve had in weeks and your lady friend is going to keep on coming back for more. In saying that, don’t just lick and suck with no thought. Look at what she’s got going on. Start with the clit, over the hood, around it, before gently drawing it back and licking the real thing. If you are a little inexperienced, or don’t know this girl that well yet, try the alphabet trick. Spell out the alphabet with your tongue, slowly. See what she responds too. Personally I’m an L girl. Lower case. I like it rhythmic. Long strokes, using the main part of your tongue, rather than the tip. Don’t get me wrong, I want it all; suck me, tease me with little flicks, get your mouth over me properly and taste me. But if you want me to cum hard and fast, that’s the way to do it.

Mr A knows this. He bought his top game. I’d cum within about 3 minutes. Men: if you have time, don’t just stop because your lady has cum. This does not automatically mean it is your turn, or that you now are guaranteed sex. Keep going. Make her cum again. And again. I was up to 4 orgasms before Mr A decided to move me. Up until now I’d been sitting up, with  Mr A between my legs, but now I was on top of him, a classic 69.

Damn...

That needed, no, deserved  it’s own line. So, I am all for 69ers, but my last few sexual partners haven’t been particularly good at using them to their full potential, so I haven’t really bothered. Mr A however, well.  I got so into it that I was literally riding his face. My pussy was grinding into his tongue, which was licking me so professionally that I am pretty sure I almost bit him at one point I was moaning so loudly. Ah the cock-sucking. Ladies if you have a man who is well-endowed, don’t be scared of the 69. It is actually less likely to bring on that pesky gag reflex than if you were say on your knees: the angle is better. Take note girls, if your man has gone to all this trouble to lick your pussy so intently, make sure that when you return the favour you put some effort in. Lack lustre blow jobs do nothing for either partner. You will be just as turned on by hearing your man moan as he will by having you deep throat him whilst you ride his face.

I came again, there is no denying it. I came so hard that I cried out, which in turn made Mr A’s dick push further into my mouth, which of course nearly sent him over the edge.  It was definitely time to fuck.

I only had to move a little to reverse cowgirl Mr A, so that is what he got. Girls: make sure that when you are on top you change it up a little now and then. Not just which way you are facing, but also your positioning. I started with my knees bent, going pretty fast. This was good, Mr A could fuck me hard and deep. For a little more control, squat. This is good if you need a moment to catch your breath. Squat over your man, go slowly, lifting yourself up until he is practically out of you before sliding back down. It will drive both of you wild. Also try laying back so that your back is against his chest. Lift your knees so that your feet are flat on the bed or floor and let him thrust into you. Make sure you move your hips, put your hands on the bed/floor to steady yourself if you need to. This last position was a winner for me and Mr A on this occasion. I have never heard a man say baby, or fuck quite so many times in such a short space of time…

Now, I mentioned right at the start that we only had an hour, and Mr A had spent a long time going down on me, so I decided to use a Wingman favourite and finish the session quickly, though, if I’d had the choice, I’d have probably carried on for a while.

If you want to finish fairly quickly, but still want both of you to get some serious pleasure, put your girl on her front. Girls, lift your arse a little and let your man fuck you from behind. Mr A likes to open my legs wide when he does this, I prefer to shut them really tight. Do both, see what works for you. What will definitely work is the fact that with the right moves, you will hit her g-spot from this position and so even if she doesn’t come right now, she will know that you can at least find it, and will want to explore that further next time.

And that folks is what happened. Mr A came. I didn’t. To be honest, I had already orgasmed considerably more than my fair share. So we left it there. Hour killed and off to an event for both of us. The thing I found sexiest about the whole escapade, other than the multiple orgasms obviously, is the fact that I was fully clothed the whole time. Dress, bra, panties…in fact the only thing that came off were the heels, and even those may have stayed on if I’d thought about it a little more before we started!

So, perhaps some food for thought there. Use it as you wish and do let me know how it goes for you.

With love

The Girl.

WingChick Words of Wisdom

All sex is good sex. It is what you make it. The best kind of sex for pure passion and necessity is make-up sex. We all know this. The moment when you both realise you can’t be angry at each other any longer, and just want to rip their clothes off and make it all better takes a lot of beating. Second best to make-up sex, for me anyhow, is surprise sex. Sex that finds you when you’re not expecting it… this is a recount of my weekend escapades that resulted in a very satisfying combination of the two.

So, I don’t have a boyfriend, fiancé, husband etc. What I do have however, as most of us ladies will at some point, is a Mr A and a Mr B. Men who I date for different reasons. In my case, Mr B is the date guy, he’s my call for dinner etc. (and I am also his, I am not the kind of girl who uses guys just for dinner :D) Mr A is my sex date. Without a doubt, Friday it was most definitely a Mr A night. I’d had a great week, but one that hadn’t involved any sex, apart from my late night escapades involving the internet and my own DIY skills. It was the weekend, I wanted to get some and Mr A was the lucky guy.

Now, I know that for most of the readers out there, you want me to cut straight to the good stuff, and we will get there don’t you worry, but not before I give you  some detail; Mr A and I went out with friends, we drank. A lot. Shots are great, Mr A and I like them. In our case however,  they are not  conducive to happy endings. Take note WingMen and Chicks, if your alpha looks as though he/she is about to drink one too many shots, remind them that a) it is harder to get it up if you are drunk, b) no one wants to fuck someone so drunk that they can barely hold themselves up. In our case, the alcohol made Mr A a little jealous and suffice to say, my casual friendly flirting did not go down well.

You don’t need the full account, but our evening ended in a huge argument, tears (from me) and everything. Wingman/chick tip: DO NOT CRY in front of a potential fuck. I can JUST about get away with it because I firstly don’t make a habit of it, and secondly happen to be really good friends with Mr A. But there is no other excuse, it is not hot. You will more than likely not get laid (unless the other person likes that kind of thing, in which case go for it…though we would still be a little worried if they are willing to get freaky with you after a first date cry-fest. In fact, really, just leave now before they murder you.)

Apologies. Off on a tangent. Back to the story.  So, we went to bed angry. Not a good move.

HERE IS THE PART YOU HAVE ALL BEEN WAITING FOR: In the early hours of the morning, I was woken up. Hung-over and confused, I couldn’t quite work out why I’d woken up to begin with. That was until I realised that Mr A was lying behind me,  had slid one of his fingers inside my pussy and was gently rubbing my G-spot. Well. I was not impressed. In fact I was still a little angry from the night before and did not enjoy being woken up after 3 hours sleep. I turned around to tell Mr A exactly where he could stick it (excuse the pun) but before I had time to complain, he had moved his fingers onto my clit, and his mouth was teasing one of my nipples. I can’t deny it, I have a real weakness when it comes to my nipples, and when you combine nipple sucking and clit stroking… well I’m pretty much a goner.

Now girls, here is a tip from me. If you want a guy to lick your pussy, tell him. In the same way that men are very happy to ask you for a blow job, be clear about what you want. No one will think any less of you, in fact any real man will be totally turned on by the request. I wasn’t quite so polite. I just grabbed the back of Mr A’s head and pushed it towards my pussy. It worked. When you haven’t had any sleep, actions speak louder than words. I wanted him to persuade me back into happiness before I let him fuck me, so my hand stayed on the back of his head, just to make sure he didn’t move until I came.

Here is a little tip: don’t go in all guns blazing if this the first time you’ve gone down on a particular girl. Take it slow, see what she responds to. Easy signs to spot that she is enjoying herself; her hands grip you, the bed etc. a little tighter, she raises her hips and pushes against you, her breathing gets heavier or more erratic. I know you know all this, but sometimes it is good to hear it again.

Mr A knows what I like, he is a quick learner, and I am a good teacher. It didn’t take me very long to be persuaded…I came and I came hard.  We spent the majority of the next hour making up. The great thing about make-up sex is that you can take all that pent up anger and use It in a positive way. In Mr A’s case that was to fuck me until I couldn’t breathe properly. In my case that was to ride him until I came again...and then tell him I wanted to sleep J

Ah don’t worry men , he didn’t let me and I’m not that mean. I know how to work that pussy and I’d say by the time I finished with him, he probably wished we argued more often.

Take this lesson from my story WingMen and Women…no matter what kind of sex you are having, make it count. Ask for what you want, and mostly you shall get.

Over and out, for now.

The Girl.

Greetings Wingmen and Women

Greetings Wingmen and Women

Welcome to our first official Wingman blog.

In today’s’ super paced world there is a multitude of sensory inputs through vision and sound. There is a never-ending stream of information overloading our senses telling us this is best or that is right. The truth is… Everyone is trying to sell you something.

Here at Wingman, that all stops, because all we care about is how, when and where you get laid, how to have fun doing it, how to help your friends and keeping in fun for people weather man or women, single or in a relationship.

Essentially, we don’t give a fuck about anything but fucking, and being a good #WINGMAN

So lets talk. Let’s talk about Sex, Love, Lust, Relationships, Singledom, Self Satisfaction, basically what ever you want.

It’s not surprising that so many Men and Women out there have lost their way when it comes to getting a partner, keeping a partner or pleasing one. So forget those Men and Women magazines that will only ever give you one perspective. Wingman is the one stop shop for all of the above.

Sure, some others can give tips can be good once in a while, but even a broken watch is right twice a day.

So enough with the bullshit you’ve been reading, you know who I am, you know what I do, so let’s get started.

Here at the Wingman blog, we’d like to make it as interactive experience as possible. Sharing photos and stories from our fellow Wingers as well as the invaluable advice we will be giving. So please…

Send in stories: - Any good wingman stories, Lucky escapes? best sex ever?

Send in photos: - Send in pics of you getting laid, Girls: send pics of you butt ass naked, your tits, bum, body, pussy whatever (Or don’t) We’re not here to perve but want you to understand we appreciate all women and as Wingmen, we want to see that shit.

We will post and keep you anonymous unless you tell us otherwise.

Send it all to yourrealwingman@gmail.com

Our first blog has to go out to all the Singletons.

THE COLD APPROACH.

Making that cold approach, finding a way in and closing the deal. Although this is and can be the toughest step, if mastered you will be a god in the eyes of mere men. This task for Women is not quite as difficult and we’ll deal with at the end.

Depending on your environment, this move can have many attributes and you will need to change your approach depending on this.  

Men often wait for times when women expect to be approached, such as bars and clubs. Although the success rate is high due to alcohol, that doesn’t necessarily mean you’ve had the moves, alcohol probably did most of it for you.

The best time to do this is when women are not expecting to be picked up, a bus stop, a shop of any kind, a library, it doesn’t matter where as long as you have the approach.

Check what you are wearing, you don’t want to rush in with a line and try to be cool if you look like shit. It doesn’t mean you won’t have a chance, you’ll just need to address it yourself so she doesn’t make a pre-judgment. Women have often made up their mind by the time you start talking to them and can be hostile, but they are a beautiful and complex creature and are willing to have their minds changed.

If it’s a night out, clubs, bars etc. the best approach is your name, immediately followed by a line of utmost importance, as this is the line that will keep you there. You’ll always have time to say the name because most women, particularly in a group will not expect a man to be able to just walk up and speak to them. They’ll be slightly shocked which is your window of opportunity.

You can be funny and charming but never make your approach to the best looking girl of the group. It will alienate the group as something they might expect to happen, so it will just put their backs up.

If you’re Peacocking, i.e. if you’re wearing a, let’s say, lively shirt, you approach the group, everyone can clearly see the loud shirt and you enter the circle of women.  A great opener would be…

Address a particular girl, this will hopefully be the cock blocker and it is your job to block her. Say “Hi, I’m John Smith, I wanted to ask you because I really like your (Compliment an item of her clothing), do you think that (at this point you bring her attention to a member of your group) he should have worn that shirt” (or what ever item you choose).

She will make a comment either about your shirt or be nice to his (if it isn’t crap) at this point depending on how friendly the come back was, most women would have found it a little funny and charming particularly if you slightly change you’re tone and you can easily ask if she’d like a drink.

Cock blocker taken care of you can now merge the two groups together and people will make their selections.

If you happen to get a rejection, never react badly and always take the gentlemanly high road. “That’s a shame, have a nice evening”.

Ladies…

This is an area where you hold power. But the approach can still be messed up if you don’t understand their frame of mind.

If you approach a group of men, as Women do, they will immediately use their friends to reinforce their confidence bringing them to say things they wouldn’t have the confidence to do alone.  But we are also simple creatures and can be easily manipulated by a woman’s tone of voice, femininity and how she holds herself. A girl who can give banter will always be welcome in a circle of men, but some of the men will also be intimidated by that confidence.

Notice these ones and pair them off with the quiet ones in your group. The Alpha is generally easy to spot, as he will be the one the others look to for acknowledgement of their humor.

Unfortunately, unlike women, men take longer to get past the initial physicality. It doesn’t take quite as long as you’d think, but depending on the group and night, they may just simply be looking to impress their friends more than choosing who they really like.

This of course mainly deals on both parts of approaching groups. We will of course get into the nuances of single approach and more, but for now, be safe and happy winging.

If you close the deal and find your self in bed. Here’s a #SexTip to blow their mind.

GUYS:

Play with and Eat her pussy for a good 20 minutes before sticking your dick in her. If you do this right she’ll either cum or be on the brink and aching to get cock in her. Gently take the hood back and lick the whole clit, your bottom lip rubbing the opening to her pussy. When you enter her, push in slowly she’ll be so wet and turned on she may come straight away.

In missionary position, put your arms under her back and grip her shoulders for leverage and to lock your body on. Then bend your head and suck her tits. In that locked position using only your hips thrust and grind your cock in her pussy deeply, but slowly and rhythmically, using your shoulder grip to force and push the tip of your cock right to the back of her pussy and hold for a second. It’ll blow her mind and feel amazing, but hold it together and make sure she comes before you do.

GIRLS:

Lie on your front but arch your back so that your pussy and ass are in the air and chest is on the bed. Let him enter you from behind but lay on you for full body contact. Move your head to the side of his when he lays on you so that you can tell him to go slow and beg him to cum in you.

This will make him wild and his moans in your ear will turn you on even more. Push back against him as he slides into you, and tense your pussy as tight as you possibly can every time he is pulling out and starting the next thrust.

This feels so good for a man that we have know doubt it’ll be over in under 2 minutes, so save it until you have been satisfied or the end of a good fuck. (Or if you just want to get out of there)

xx

Your Real Wingman.

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