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Tales Of The Expected

Hello again Wingmen and women. 

Hope you’ve had a week full of fun and frolics. The focus of today’s blog entry is…well actually, there isn’t a focus as such, but I think you will like it.

If you have read my first entry, you will remember Mr A. (good at going down, quick learner, my friendly fuck-buddy?...that’s the one, I knew you’d get there in the end.) Well, I finished work early one day this week and decided to use the extra time on my hands to pay Mr A a little visit. Luckily for me, Mr A had the afternoon off work and an hour to kill, so off I went. Wing-tip: if you live/work close enough to, seize opportunities to spend even half an hour with your ‘friend’. A lot can happen in a short space of time...as you will see.

We had the cursory ‘how was your day?’ conversation, some cuddling etc. Interestingly for a fuck-buddy, Mr A is very into cuddling. I have no complaints. The majority of girls like cuddles. Cuddles make us feel wanted, which means we are more likely to want to fuck you. Never underestimate the power of a good cuddle. As we were talking, Mr A’s hand started to slide up my leg. It has been unexpectedly mild this week, I was wearing a smart work dress- bare legs. Girls- it may still be winter, but that Is not an excuse for fuzzy legs. Make sure they are smooth, just in case, as happened to me, someone wants to run their hands all over you. No one wants to scratch their fingers in the process. Luckily, I am prepared 99.9% of the time, and Mr A’s hand slid further up my skirt until it reached my panties.

Everyone has a sex-tell. Something they do that tells the other person they want to fuck you. Yes, even you have one. You may not know or realise it, but ask someone you have been sleeping with for a while, they will let you know. I am not even sure what mine is. Probably not a very subtle tell in my case, I tend to make it very clear what I want. Mr A’s tell is his right hand. It starts at the knee and very quickly reaches the pussy. He is a total pussy-fiend. I know the minute that hand reaches the pussy I am going to end up fucking him. It can’t be helped, he knows how to please a girl.

I will cut straight to the chase today. Mr A moved my panties to the side (this is another favourite move of his…I was always a panties off kind of girl until I met him, now, well… :D) To be completely honest with you, I was already a little turned on. Mr A’s kisses are ridiculously good. There are two types of kisses that turn me on; the passionate, ripping your clothes off while my lips are locked on yours kind and the soft, equally passionate kisses that make a girl go weak at the knees. I had just been treated to the latter. Men: get good at both of these. Just like sex, women want variety in their kisses. They want to be romanced one minute and ravished the next. Get this right before even thinking she’s going to let you near the pussy.

Mr A pulled my dress up to my hips and pushed my legs open. Men, don’t be shy to do this. Obviously you don’t want to hurt your girl, but opening her legs wide makes it clear to her that you’re about to go down on her and the anticipation will start the orgasm hormones working.

Let’s talk pussy. Mr A knows how to lick it. I can’t tell you the details because in all honesty I was too caught up, but the most important thing to remember is to enjoy it. And show you are enjoying it. There is nothing less sexy than a man who approaches your pussy with trepidation. Nothing bad is going to happen to you, in fact the opposite. Get down there and eat it like it’s the first meal you’ve had in weeks and your lady friend is going to keep on coming back for more. In saying that, don’t just lick and suck with no thought. Look at what she’s got going on. Start with the clit, over the hood, around it, before gently drawing it back and licking the real thing. If you are a little inexperienced, or don’t know this girl that well yet, try the alphabet trick. Spell out the alphabet with your tongue, slowly. See what she responds too. Personally I’m an L girl. Lower case. I like it rhythmic. Long strokes, using the main part of your tongue, rather than the tip. Don’t get me wrong, I want it all; suck me, tease me with little flicks, get your mouth over me properly and taste me. But if you want me to cum hard and fast, that’s the way to do it.

Mr A knows this. He bought his top game. I’d cum within about 3 minutes. Men: if you have time, don’t just stop because your lady has cum. This does not automatically mean it is your turn, or that you now are guaranteed sex. Keep going. Make her cum again. And again. I was up to 4 orgasms before Mr A decided to move me. Up until now I’d been sitting up, with  Mr A between my legs, but now I was on top of him, a classic 69.

Damn...

That needed, no, deserved  it’s own line. So, I am all for 69ers, but my last few sexual partners haven’t been particularly good at using them to their full potential, so I haven’t really bothered. Mr A however, well.  I got so into it that I was literally riding his face. My pussy was grinding into his tongue, which was licking me so professionally that I am pretty sure I almost bit him at one point I was moaning so loudly. Ah the cock-sucking. Ladies if you have a man who is well-endowed, don’t be scared of the 69. It is actually less likely to bring on that pesky gag reflex than if you were say on your knees: the angle is better. Take note girls, if your man has gone to all this trouble to lick your pussy so intently, make sure that when you return the favour you put some effort in. Lack lustre blow jobs do nothing for either partner. You will be just as turned on by hearing your man moan as he will by having you deep throat him whilst you ride his face.

I came again, there is no denying it. I came so hard that I cried out, which in turn made Mr A’s dick push further into my mouth, which of course nearly sent him over the edge.  It was definitely time to fuck.

I only had to move a little to reverse cowgirl Mr A, so that is what he got. Girls: make sure that when you are on top you change it up a little now and then. Not just which way you are facing, but also your positioning. I started with my knees bent, going pretty fast. This was good, Mr A could fuck me hard and deep. For a little more control, squat. This is good if you need a moment to catch your breath. Squat over your man, go slowly, lifting yourself up until he is practically out of you before sliding back down. It will drive both of you wild. Also try laying back so that your back is against his chest. Lift your knees so that your feet are flat on the bed or floor and let him thrust into you. Make sure you move your hips, put your hands on the bed/floor to steady yourself if you need to. This last position was a winner for me and Mr A on this occasion. I have never heard a man say baby, or fuck quite so many times in such a short space of time…

Now, I mentioned right at the start that we only had an hour, and Mr A had spent a long time going down on me, so I decided to use a Wingman favourite and finish the session quickly, though, if I’d had the choice, I’d have probably carried on for a while.

If you want to finish fairly quickly, but still want both of you to get some serious pleasure, put your girl on her front. Girls, lift your arse a little and let your man fuck you from behind. Mr A likes to open my legs wide when he does this, I prefer to shut them really tight. Do both, see what works for you. What will definitely work is the fact that with the right moves, you will hit her g-spot from this position and so even if she doesn’t come right now, she will know that you can at least find it, and will want to explore that further next time.

And that folks is what happened. Mr A came. I didn’t. To be honest, I had already orgasmed considerably more than my fair share. So we left it there. Hour killed and off to an event for both of us. The thing I found sexiest about the whole escapade, other than the multiple orgasms obviously, is the fact that I was fully clothed the whole time. Dress, bra, panties…in fact the only thing that came off were the heels, and even those may have stayed on if I’d thought about it a little more before we started!

So, perhaps some food for thought there. Use it as you wish and do let me know how it goes for you.

With love

The Girl.